Off The Record      
10 going on 16
by Ahmad Izham Omar
Feb 13, 2008 at 11:44 AM    Comments: 91


 

I was on FLY FM one morning. Phat Fabes and Ben got me in and asked me a question, live on air.

“It’s Valentine’s Day soon,” Phat Fabes asked. “If your daughter was 16 and wanted to go on a date, what would you do?”

What I said next, I couldn’t believe.

“Well I wouldn’t allow it,” I said, before I could stop myself. “My mother only allowed me to go on dates in my 20s so there’s no way I will allow her to go on a date before she’s 18”.

I was a little horrified with what I said. I sounded so much like….like…like an old traditional-type father person.

I went out of the studio feeling weird. My daughter’s only turning 11 this year. I have never thought about what I would do if she wants to go out on a date when she’s 16. Or even earlier.

Do I stop her? Do I only allow her to certain places? What would my mother say?

Anyone out there can give me some advice?

 
aifa said...
I hope 8tv will airing Korean drama with their original language.. ><
at Jan 10, 2010 02:21:03 AM

howlaijing said...
i love *tv.....gary...... haha said.....
at Dec 27, 2009 08:26:35 PM

Fynn said...
This comment is specially for Esther,i was wondering that she has a good vocal among all the contestant but her pronounciation is not that clear so is it a matter?Lastly, i hope that she can pick more of the new generation songs and this might help her to change her personality to be younger.Anyway,she is still one of my favourite in one in a million show.
at Apr 02, 2009 08:42:02 PM

ainelisya said...
Askum...hai....sejak masuk skolah menengah ni sy suka sgt tgk drama/citer taiwan ,korea n citer2 yg berbahasa cina...sy hrp citer taiwan n korea akan terus ditayangkan...
at Dec 25, 2008 01:17:03 PM

Daddybuck said...
Hey Supersapien.... Bro, I'm a daddy too. I got my 4 yrs old princess. Trust me, you are not alone bro. Stick to your decision and protect her as much as you can. If she loves you as much as you do, she'll definitely understand. No matter what..... we are still 'Budak Melayu'..... ;-)
at Sep 06, 2008 04:16:40 PM

Malaysian said...
8TV mengapa tak siar azan berbuka puasa? Ini sudah masuk hari ketiga bulan suci Ramadhan.
at Sep 04, 2008 07:56:19 AM

disney said...
Hi 8tv!... I'm deaf. I want to see watch online but i can't hear without chinese sub. I don't understand what mean it. I need to watch online in malay sub. i like watch online game show and chinese drama but without malay sub. Hope to watch more new game show and diffrerent. TQ
at Sep 03, 2008 12:05:48 AM

skyline 77 said...
saya berasa sangat teruja apabila menonton video Faizal TAhir`SAMPAI SYURGA`.........tapi allah mahu selamatkannya dari terlemas
at Aug 28, 2008 02:07:37 PM

skyline 77 said...
this is the first time i join 8tv........
at Aug 28, 2008 02:03:45 PM

am said...
salam, semakin jelak tengok faizal tahir dengan perwatakan dia tu. sedarlah wahai faizal tahir jalan kamu pilih dulu nasyid jauh lebih bermakna dan bermanfaat. tolong jangan rosakkan anak bangsa terutama muslim semua.
at Aug 27, 2008 02:12:57 AM

Luke said...
Please review Gary's (8864 show) performance. It's so bad. Bad personality. Talks nonsense. Acts like a fool. Silly actions all over his shows.
at Aug 26, 2008 10:21:35 AM

u know who said...
i say let her go on dates with guys just put the chestedy belt on her..
at Aug 25, 2008 04:32:45 PM

bb said...
8tv go go go......... i love u 8tv...
at Aug 24, 2008 09:52:05 AM

sya said...
hello..En.Izham, -i'm a student and i need 2 do researh about game show.. -then 'go-go-go game show' at 8tv was attracting me. -how am i going to contact with this game show producer?? -please help as i really need your help.. -segala kerjasama anda amat saya hargai.. TQ so much
at Aug 19, 2008 02:46:25 PM

COOL said...
SELAMAT HARI RAYA
at Aug 18, 2008 04:47:27 PM

patzzi said...
all dad in this world is like you..but when the time you will let her go..don't wory father will always be hero to their daughter...
at Jul 26, 2008 11:53:09 AM

jay said...
laa..dont worry bout tat... if ur daughter do tat,u oso couldnt stop her..isnt it...am i right...
at Jul 25, 2008 02:56:45 PM

Paris Ashiqin said...
(continued) I think u're already a wonderful dad. U'll know what to do when ur daughter turns 16 and she wants to go out on Valentine's Day. She'll do her part and u'll do urs. Good luck to Mr Izham's daughter, haha!
at Jul 21, 2008 08:21:14 PM

Paris Ashiqin said...
Even when my folks didn't allow me to date, i juz go out with d boys anyway (as early as 12, haha, I blame it to d hormonal changes!) .But what I do to gain their trust is drag d boys by d collar (macam gangster gitu, haha!) n introduce them 2 to my folks. Haha! How my parents want to conduct their interview and how d boys will react to such V VIP treatment, that 's entirely a diff story, but it helps me to make my decisions too. I think u're already a wonderful dad. U'll know what to do when ur
at Jul 21, 2008 08:19:47 PM

ikram said...
instill the fear of 'the wrath of god' if she goes on a date before 18, should work. But you gotta work on your angry face.
at Jul 15, 2008 01:13:20 AM

meeeei said...
Well, frankly speaking, i think that a teenagers mind could be shaped when they are still young (like now for your daughter case... hehe). By the time they're 16, if they could differentiate between what's right and what's wrong.. i don't see why can't they go on a dates. Anyway, still need to reach out to them and understand them especially during their teenage-hood. If they trust you and they could comfortably communicate with you.. believe me they'll tell you lots of stuff (like how I'd share
at Jul 10, 2008 02:08:23 AM

izam said...
hey guys, pls forward all complaints/suggestions to izham@8tv.com.my thanks
at Jul 07, 2008 02:30:48 PM

Sahrlini said...
what even stupid is when 8TV Programme Manager add Indonesian Drama at 11am on saturday & sunday and Philipine drama at 10.30pm on Sunday,,,,8Tv Programme Manager super stupid....
at Jul 03, 2008 11:51:20 PM

Sandy Ng said...
To:8TV Programme Manager,what a stupid idea by adding a "Hokkien Drama" on weekdays at 11am & makan my 1 hour of english Jukebox...
at Jul 03, 2008 11:04:37 PM

he said...
??????????????????! ????????????????????????! ?????????????????! ????????! ?????????????????????!
at Jul 03, 2008 08:17:23 PM

evelyn said...
You should not stop her. I had gone through that situation before where my mom stop me from go out dating. I will just start lying, telling my mom that i go out with friends. So, if you want your daughter be honest with you or you don't want any gap between you and your daughter, you better be more understanding towards your daughter instead of just stop her for dating.
at Jul 01, 2008 11:16:19 PM

dee said...
where the hell is the rest of prison break season 3???!!! correct me if i'm wrong. Did 8tv just threw it out and replaced it with sarah conner cronicles blah..blah.. So disapointed
at Jun 30, 2008 10:50:11 PM

Jody said...
why 8tv since start from 2004 did't have Ariel Lin drama wan! All malaysians fans prefer her drama more than Rainie Yang!We already see 2 Rainie Yang's drama on 8tv but Ariel Lin one also did't have on 8tv yet...Astro got many Ariel Lin's drama...but we hope that 8tv can buy more Ariel Lin's drama coz we love 8tv rather than Astro !Believe me...coz many malaysians people love her...last few day,her partner Joe Cheng come 2 malaysia promote their drama for Astro!We hope that 8tv can buy Ariel Li
at Jun 30, 2008 08:34:29 PM

sarah said...
i whould like to applying...part time job at 8tv...i'm a undergraduate broadcasting student from U***...i hope to get a part time job for experience.... thx you.. hope can hear u soon
at Jun 25, 2008 12:18:22 AM

kelly said...
dun worry soon all will come ~~! i also a daughter of my lovely parent ,same case with u ~!my mami tell me that i better dun have boyfriends at this moment cos i will menyesal when i was at outstation work ~! cos will meet a better guy..~ so i think abt what my mami say .that is the true~ so i did no have any relationship till i have my college life..~!so my mami stil tell me the same thing ,but i aldy have 3 time pengalaman in dating ,but my mami would knw..~~!haha.. (bad gurl )hehehe.. ju
at Jun 23, 2008 10:59:49 AM

forever supporter 8tv said...
i really really like 8tv programme...the host, the show, the programme...all i like it..especially local programme...like ho ciak..hi,seoul..... keep it on...jia you..support forever!!!
at Jun 18, 2008 01:16:35 PM

8tv support said...
why cannot watch Hi Seoul??????? what happen!!!!can tell me>>>>>
at Jun 07, 2008 11:14:20 PM

8tv support said...
i hope 8tv chinese program can view subtitle...... i really kecewa is 8tv web site so bad!! the program can see in 8tv web site , but cannot watch.perhatian is janji...okey!!!! dan web site should be chinese and english two web site.
at Jun 07, 2008 11:04:28 PM

Secret_Recipe said...
This is very interesting...if me i wld let my kids to go out but not a date but a meeting i call it subject to T & C....like Who...When...Time out...Time In....The Place and Area I pick........My place Wld be like Secret Recipe....or some where formal n expensive....The lesson is so that the boy wld know that it is expensive bcos it comes with responsibilities....
at May 26, 2008 08:44:50 PM

Syieda said...
en.izham..sy cdgkn wat lah 1 blog hnye utk cite2 korea or taiwan je n update kan sgala cite yg korang pnh tyg kn kat tv..hmm..lg, update kn r cite my girl, coffee prince n sassy girl-choon hyang..ari2 sy bkk lmn web nie,tp still x update gak cite2 korea tue..tlg r en.izham..plzzzz..
at May 26, 2008 11:21:37 AM

wendy wong said...
Encik Izham,i agree with Iza...bacause my tv is only 21 inch...then 8tv go & minimise the music videos screen so small size during Jukebox to make more space for SMS chatting...it is really annoying& not fair for us who want more larger space for music videos screen and my tv is only 21 inch ...how to watch those music videos since 8tv minimise the music videos screen so small size :"(
at May 23, 2008 09:52:31 PM

iza said...
To:Izham,Why 8tv always minimise the music videos screen so small size during Jukebox,can you enlarge the music videos screen a little bit thanks
at May 23, 2008 09:34:52 PM

Malaysian said...
Saudara CEO Ahmad Izham Omar saye nak tanye ni, adakah dengan siar Azan rating penonton merosot? Akhlak merosot tak ape ke? Azan tu siarle bukannye lame pun. Lu pikerla sendiri.
at May 19, 2008 01:33:40 PM

Preetygirl said...
I agree with Malaysian, remaja malay yang banyak menonton stesen ini perlu sedar tanggungjawab anda terhadap tuhan, jadi elok and it good to hear Azan ini this station expecially bila masuk waktu sembahyang.
at May 19, 2008 01:27:16 PM

Malaysian said...
8tv khasnya saudara ceonya Ahmad Izham Omar agar dapat menyiarkan azan sekurang-kurangnya azan maghrib kerana stesen ini sidah cukup dengan acara hiburan yang melalaikan. Sedarlah tanggungjawab terhadap tuhan.
at May 19, 2008 01:22:44 PM

apple said...
aku nak tgk cter my girl arrrrrr
at May 17, 2008 08:10:48 AM

courage said...
<h1>i think :- don't stop her, but keep an close eye. I guess, if ur daughter trust u enough,she will share details of the date:)hehe! and, young ppl are learning faster these days!</h1>
at May 15, 2008 12:53:23 PM

ori prankster said...
well,i dont thin dat u r being traditional-type person.. i do believe dat it depends on location n attitude frankly..
at May 15, 2008 12:52:23 PM

am said...
izham tolong ye beritahu si faizal tahir tu sini malaysia berbudaya serba sederhana segala. buat apapun tolong serba sederhana ye janganla nak lebih2han sangat2 nyanyi tu. kalau nak lebih sangat pergila indonesia sana. tolong jangan nak rosakkan anak bangsa dengan pengaruh tak elok tu. mudahan ramai lagi yang ikut jejak mufti perlis beri kesedaran. dulu dah elok dengan lagu ketuhanan. insan patut hijrah ke arah yg lebih baikla anak tahir oiii melayu.
at May 10, 2008 02:53:33 AM

izadila said...
knp cite silence drama taiwan setiap ari sabtu dan ahad 9.oo-10.00 pagi xdak dalam website di 8tv.. knp prince hour yang dh tamat ada kat 8tv.. tolong la masukkan cite silence drama taiwan 2 kat 8tv.. harap pihak 8tv dapat mempertimbangkan permintaan sy dengan secepat mungkin coz cite 2 best bangat..tq. :)
at May 08, 2008 10:13:07 PM

Thomas-87 said...
WHY is Terminator : The Sarah Connor Chronicles is not showing ????? WHY WHY WHY ????? I'm waiting long for the show !!!!!
at Apr 28, 2008 02:46:35 AM

khaleda said...
ala tlg la letak kan hello my lady kat dlm catch up tv tuh!! dah la sy tak dpt tengok mlm neh dah ler last citer tuh mesti tak dpt tengok jugak dah la coffe prince tak der dlm neh!!! dah ramai kwn2 sy komplen suruh letak coffe prince dlm ni dgn citer hello my lady!!! please letak please please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
at Apr 25, 2008 04:06:17 PM

Ariff Abu Samah said...
Invite their so called BF to the house and bombard them as polite as possible ( remenber u r not the enemy) with real life question like taxes, Bank account and tell them u have a licence for gun. last but not least read To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee, u may learn a thing or two from Atticus Finch. i know i did. GOOD LUCK.
at Apr 25, 2008 02:48:28 PM

Ariff Abu Samah said...
tricky question. im a father of 3 kids. My eldest son in 11. I guess ill be asking the same question when my daughter reaches her 18 birthday. My sister have a very interesting way of handling this matter, u see she have to manage 5 daughters from 13, 15 and 17 , 19 and 21, and all in theirs prime, the eldest is at UM and the younger uns still at school and boys start to pay attention. As open as we can be, the best thing is to be BRAVE. Boys are inevitable in their lives, invite their so called
at Apr 25, 2008 02:43:30 PM

weng said...
why i cannot see the small video same as the 8tv is doing and at the web at the sametime??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
at Apr 25, 2008 01:59:49 PM

thomas-87 said...
i wanna ask why Terminator : The Sarah Connor Chronicles and Las Vegas are not showing ????? I'm waiting long for the show !!!
at Apr 24, 2008 08:33:55 PM

leily leily said...
hye en. izham..sye ske sgt2 tgk drama korea kt 8tv..sye ske glew cte 'HELLO!MY LADY' tp msalanye..sye nk tau kt 8tv ney xley tgk drama korae tu bleq kew?tyangkn lew en. izham..plszzzzzzzzzz..i really2 beg to u..plszzzz..
at Apr 19, 2008 01:26:37 PM

chris said...
IZHAM! PLEASE! LET THE SWITCHFOOT VIDS BE AVAILABLE ONLINE?!?! =D
at Apr 18, 2008 08:01:42 PM

ct said...
i like this movie but why i can`t watch this full movie from internet..................................
at Apr 07, 2008 07:38:14 PM

my lovely daughter said...
hey yeah my lovely daughter dat wat my dad called me. well u noe ur daughter is damn lucky 2 av u as a dad. im 2 is the well spoiled brat of the family but i definetely noe the limit of my dad. he would neva eva2 let my go for a date wit a guy even if im 17 now. seriously dat suxxx but when i thinkd of it every time i sort of thanx my dad. when he wont let me out of da house i use dat time to study n chat along my gurlfrenz. dat is way beta then wastin my time try 2 find perfect clothes 2 wear o
at Apr 07, 2008 12:13:56 AM

Toh said...
thnx a lot...actually u had help me a lot in my uni assignment.... u r vry helpful and kindly CEO...
at Apr 04, 2008 05:08:07 AM

khaleda said...
i want to ask how do i get celine dion ticket counsert??
at Apr 01, 2008 08:41:49 PM

ellio8 said...
cmne nk tgk online nih....x boleh pun
at Mar 26, 2008 07:28:12 AM

aldrin said...
saya ingin bertanya kepada en.ahmad idzham, mengenai malaysian idol musim terbaru bagi tahun 2008.Adakah malaysian idol musim ketiga akan diteruskan?rakyat malaysia sudah lama menantikan musim terbaru malaysian idol.Saya berharap agar malaysian idol diteruskan semula bagi melahirkan bakat baru di malaysia.saya berharap sangat,encik mempertimbangkan hal ini. terima kasih...
at Mar 23, 2008 10:43:28 PM

ikram said...
i can chapperone (however u spell that) or help you by having a senapang gajah when the boy comes to pick my niece up hehee
at Mar 18, 2008 05:54:02 PM

flat_kel_roy said...
encik izham leh tak siar kan konsert voices mmu cyberjaya...saya dengar konsert tue gempak gila dan ramai yang cakap pasal konsert voices tue..tak org 8tv x pi kot..kalau leh siarkan encik izham.
at Mar 15, 2008 12:16:30 AM

May said...
just think you came out alright with old fashioned mom and pop rules ;). So why not? The only times moving vs. yester years is inflation and crime rates. That's my take
at Mar 14, 2008 12:54:43 PM

khaleda said...
were i will win colbie caillat ticket counsert?????????? were????? WERE??????????????????????????????
at Mar 12, 2008 11:53:03 PM

puteri said...
Well, they will hate u if u don't let them and they will hate u if u do let them...think about it....whatever u say wil b wrong in their minds but one day, they'll open their eyes&realized what u said was right.. Message from Anak Malaysia in New Zealand...
at Mar 11, 2008 04:39:36 PM

weng said...
HELLO
at Mar 11, 2008 01:22:37 PM

weng said...
where can i see repeat ugly betty at online(8tv)?
at Mar 11, 2008 01:21:53 PM

rizdwan74kl said...
kenapa destinasi bajet tak dipaparkan kat web? saya rasa rancangan tu sgt bagus sebab dia menggalakan perlancongan negara. tak semua org berkesempatan nak menonton kat tv. kerajaan sibuk mempromosikan perlancongan dlm negara tapi ada rancangan baik dlm negara x di paparkan. satu kerugian besar. rasanya ramai yg boleh tonton kat web untuk tgk tempat-tempat menarik yang bajet simple. harap 8tv boleh paparkan destinasi bajet dlm web
at Mar 06, 2008 05:48:12 PM

ASfarina said...
well...i dont think there's nothing wrong with being like..like..like an old-fashioned type of person. considering the way you/we were brought up and also the kind of society you/we live in. but whats actually important is, not the decision to allow or not, but to know how to overcome such situation without your daughter misunderstanding you in the future. make sure she understands why you dont allow her if you wont, and if you will make sure she understands the responsibility behind it.. i s
at Mar 06, 2008 01:40:06 PM

am said...
izam, dah ada artis baru kononnya ikhlas sangat tu jangan lupa terus tingkatkan lagi prestasi jac dalam industri seni ni macam ct meningkat sampai sekarang ni ternyata hampir setiap album dia terbukti berkualiti. album kedua jac kau penerbitnya kan kesian betul memang keseluruhan lagu kurang sedap dan tidak meningkatkan kualiti jac dalam industri. tolong jangan siakan bakat jac yang dahpun terbukti berkualiti.
at Mar 04, 2008 03:34:39 AM

cici said...
bile nk tayangkan cite korea coffee prince kt website nih?
at Mar 03, 2008 12:25:16 PM

whibley said...
well for me,i think u shud give her chance to go out on a date..its not like shes doin sumthg wrong..its juz a date..n u know dat evry grown up girl needs sum1 in her life..i mean even if u didnt give her permission,who knows she'll do it behind ur back..i mean without ur permission..so its better for u to give her chance n then talk to her slowly bout thigs dat buggin u..i mean mybe sumthg like u afraid sumthg's will happen to her..or mybe sumthg like choose the right man n not evry1 can be tru
at Feb 29, 2008 06:04:27 PM

nilluny said...
hhmphh. i think that u should not allow her to go out for a date coz she is only 16 years old or even older than that..she's a girl...and you should not even let her think to go out for a date unless u accompany her..hehe..ur mom's rule is the best rule ever..
at Feb 28, 2008 09:59:44 PM

ho said...
26.2.2008 20:00 mandarin news Sir, Your chinese news just made a big mistake, 275 millions in chinese reads as ??????? not ??????!!!
at Feb 26, 2008 08:59:13 PM

izam said...
nanti kita akan buat in ori korean language. will let you know which drama and when
at Feb 24, 2008 07:08:15 PM

Annis said...
knape 8tv ulangkan my girl pukul 4 hingga 5 ptg dgn bahasa china??sya mmng minat sgat cite my girl tue...jdi sy sanggup buat mcm nie semate mate nk tgk cite my girl tue dlm bahasa korea!please la sy mohon tlg la tunaikan permintaan sy nie...please...sy mmng minat sgt cite tue....tlg la..tlg la...tunaikan la permintaan sy nie..sy nk my girl tu bersiaran pada minggu hadapan sehinnga episoe akhir,dlm bahasa asalnya(bahasa korea) dgn sarikata bahasa melayu..please la sy mohon....sgt....klu awk tunai
at Feb 24, 2008 05:13:40 PM

Soul2Soul said...
We've all heard from our mom,"if all your friends jumped off a bridge,would you jump off one too?!" The characteristics taught us to be more integrity,fairness and to accept our failings with grace. Because mom knows the best out of us in an unique way.. So,have some courage and build up your trust in her.. Remember what your said "Wear clean undwear,what if you get in accident and somebody sees it?!".. Hehee..Glad luck,man!!
at Feb 21, 2008 03:06:24 AM

kim said...
I would think that your girl is one of the lucky girls in the world to have you as a dad. Now that she's 11, it's high time to sit down & talk to her about these things in a casual manner. Don't scare her!!! haha...
at Feb 20, 2008 01:41:06 AM

Dasuki Shiro said...
To my opinion as a daughter, I think that everything parents do/did is only best for their kids. What a 16 year old kid know about life? I mean REAL LIFE? Adults still tend to make mistakes, of course, teenages also will do the same. Teenagers thinking mind absolutely different from us, adults. You just concern about your girl's safety, that's all. Yes, it might sound like old people, traditionally type. But going out on datings totally not our culture as a Muslim anyway... It's ok to be st
at Feb 18, 2008 04:15:55 PM

miSzque said...
huh,dont stop her... giv permisssion..lew.let them go keay... huhuu....x
at Feb 18, 2008 04:15:37 PM

micho said...
*sambung*daughter is fatherly enough. the end.
at Feb 18, 2008 12:27:29 AM

micho said...
omg, u really do sound like an old man. hey honestly u do. hear a 17 turning 18 out, 16 is actually the most ideal age to go out on a date. All the hormones are popping like popcorns in a popcorn machine! See those senior primary school kids nowadays? they look like plastics on sticks. They're everywhere in the malls. They're 12! Shouldn't they be accompanied by their guardian or elder siblings?Ah anyway I know the latter part is of no relevant to my comment but I personally think banning your d
at Feb 18, 2008 12:26:21 AM

Girly Girl said...
First and foremost, I have just turn 17 years old last January and i am a chinese girl. My parents allow me to have a man in my life. Mostly they think i am responsible enough to handle relationship at my age. They also said that my boyfriend is great and i am mature to take care of myself. And on V-day i stayed at home to study for my SPM. I only go out with my boyfriend once per 3 months. So what i am trying to say is: Parents should allow their child freedom based on their child's ability
at Feb 17, 2008 08:16:41 PM

syaf said...
they will eventually come back??come back like gillian chung is it??..i quite agree with paul...they need to know that 1 time letting you down will change everything..
at Feb 14, 2008 07:46:46 PM

courage said...
if you love the person,let them go..:) they will eventually come back and realize that you love them...
at Feb 14, 2008 01:44:43 PM

PaulLMF said...
Ya, havin ur daughter's respect and trust is gonna be much better in long run. I'd let her go..from as soon as she wants to, but with some guidelines at first. Let her know that ONE time letting you down will change everything. She should knw also, that a decent guy will prefer a trustworthy girl.
at Feb 14, 2008 01:43:01 PM

bluestone said...
hi there.. i think.. it's just not time yet.. maybe 18 will be better,, but not 16.. i'm not being old-fashioned here,, but i do believe that it's the right way to deal with it.. my parents didn't let me as well when i was younger.. i know it's for my own good.. but teens ARE teens.. We tend to be kinda rebellious sometimes, really.. though i didn't do anything that hurts them.. if you choose to let her,, remember to keep a close eye..( but not like freaking paranoid dad larr).. if you tru
at Feb 13, 2008 11:03:08 PM

lil said...
well i know i would be upset wif my parents if they dun allow me to go out wif a guy i really like...if fact some of my frens lie to their parents and sneak out anyway...i'm sure u'd rather know where they are then havin them sneaking out wif god knows who n where...so let her go if she really wants to but be aware of the kind of guy he is n every detail u can get...or u can even do the scary dad interogation thingy to the guy...muahahaha...pz
at Feb 13, 2008 08:28:48 PM

syaf said...
..that is for their good,and im sure restrictions makes them come out independent,know right and wrong,a better person that is...I believe so much better with a parents with loose rules..." -and that comes from a friend...a very close friend of mine..i agree with him.. bukan 4/7 kita marah-marah or strict..we give them what they want..but they must learn how world wont follow their way all the time...because if you let loose now,one day when you gone...he/she will learn the hardest way...
at Feb 13, 2008 04:09:00 PM

syaf said...
what the hell??oi...kita org timur lah...my father bagi belt theraphy if my sister wanted to go out...i dont hafal sifir,i tidur luar...dont follow westerns...look what they have become..they left their parents alone and some of them hate them..your anak pijak your head??no way...trust me on this one..my friend said...if i teach my son and daughters discipline,his gonna grow up fine..at least like me(look who we are now...this is proof our parent is right)..."if i scold them that is for the
at Feb 13, 2008 04:07:57 PM

ori prankster said...
well,i dont thin dat u r being traditional-type person.. i do believe dat it depends on location n attitude frankly..
at Feb 13, 2008 03:54:39 PM

courage said...
i think :- don't stop her, but keep an close eye. I guess, if ur daughter trust u enough,she will share details of the date:)hehe! and, young ppl are learning faster these days!
at Feb 13, 2008 11:50:17 AM


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I Need A Cold Shower
by Ahmad Izham Omar
Jun 29, 2010 at 05:52 PM    Comments: 0

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The Polisher
by Ahmad Izham Omar
Jun 14, 2010 at 04:13 PM    Comments: 10

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Why A Reality Show Winner Is Not A Real Music Star...Yet
by Ahmad Izham Omar
Apr 27, 2010 at 11:35 AM    Comments: 6

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Protect me.
by Ahmad Izham Omar
Mar 16, 2010 at 11:59 AM    Comments: 14

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Uncle
by Ahmad Izham Omar
Feb 08, 2010 at 02:49 PM    Comments: 11

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